Updated: Jun 13
Psychic mediumship can be a beautiful experience, and it's definitely worth exploring if you're curious about the afterlife and what happens after we die. Just make sure to do your research and choose a psychic medium that you feel comfortable with. It’s important to keep in mind that mediumship is not a game and shouldn’t be taken lightly as its purpose is to bring peace and reassurance to
the loved one still here that their loved one is actually still in existence, just no longer here on the earthly plane.
There are a few key things to look for when trying to determine whether or not a psychic medium is legitimate or right for you Perhaps the most important factor is trusting your gut, your intuition - who do you feel naturally drawn to? Next, check out reviews on this person and even follow them on social platforms for a while to see if they are “jiving” with you. If you continue to feel positive, then this is a good sign.
Continue to research the psychic medium to find out why they have chosen this path, how long they have been doing this, and are willing to communicate with you outside the appointment to answer any questions you have to make you feel at ease. Mediumship is an intimate and sacred experience, and the psychic medium should have the best intentions for both your loved ones and you in consideration. Simply put, the psychic medium should be straightforward and be as genuine as possible. Whether the psychic medium is famous, or not, means nothing. Your loved one in Spirit actually influences you to choose which medium to work with because they feel they have a good chance to convey what they want to say through that medium to you through the psychic medium’s skills and abilities.
Further, if either you or the medium are not feeling well prior to the appointment, it is recommended to reschedule the mediumship sitting for a better time when both are feeling well. If a medium is not willing to work with you on this or they try to force the session to happen despite them not feeling well, stay clear. Physical and emotional issues will impact the session and why should you settle for nothing short of a free-flowing and absolutely amazing experience with your loved one?!
The psychic medium should be able to give you specific and detailed information that they could not have known otherwise. If a psychic medium is simply making general statements that could apply to anyone, then they are probably not legitimate. Keep in mind that just because you are asking a certain loved one to come through and they don’t, does not mean the loved one doesn’t want to talk to you; there is just someone else that needs to come through for your highest good at this time. Your psychic medium will bring forth information they receive and some of it may not make sense straightaway, therefore, it is highly recommended to bring something to write with to take notes or even ask the medium if it’s okay for you to record the session (some may not feel comfortable with this). It is very common that information shared from Spirit during the session will make sense later on, or someone else will be able to take it, therefore, making the validation concrete and what Spirit hoped for!
There is no right or wrong time to see a psychic medium. Your loved ones are never “stuck” and are fine the moment they are released from their human body. It is you that has to be willing to hear from the Spirit World and have an open mindset. Remember also that each psychic medium works slightly differently, but essentially are all here to provide that bridge between Spirit on the other side and here - to be the voice for the voiceless.
If you are struggling with strong emotional problems such as depression, anger or grief then it may be best to wait awhile until you feel a bit more centered and calmer. You can also choose to seek help or guidance from either a professional caregiver, support group, or friend. Your feelings are valid, and there is no right or wrong time period of how to “get over it”. Grief can be a lifelong journey depending on the relationship you had with this soul that has passed on. Your loved one wants the best for you always. If they didn’t seem to while they were alive on Earth, then know, they do now!
Overall, it is important to just trust your gut instinct. If something feels off about a psychic medium, it is probably best to steer clear. There are plenty of legitimate psychic mediums out there, so there is no need to settle for someone who doesn't feel right.